This is a topic a little out of the usual dating and relationship realm, but it does have to do with relationships, in general.
As humans, we have a natural tendency to judge others. She has too much acne. His voice is too feminine. I won’t date someone that short. Why do you have to like such terrible music?
Whether we like to admit it or not, we all do this. Some worse than others. Some take it to the extreme and lash out at those who they judge. They oppress, discriminate against, or even be violent towards them.
Let’s try a quick test inspired by a profoundly articulate talk on free will from Sam Harris [ ]. – Think of three major cities, right now.
Which three popped into your head? Why those three? Did you choose them, or were they just…there? Out of thousands of cities you are…
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